I used to be the girl that made my boyfriend block other girls on social networks or delete numbers just to feel more secure about myself and the relationship. I used to be the girl that would go through his phone just to surveillance everyone he would talk to. Yes, I was THAT girl. The one that had been wronged before and decided to take things into her own hands and stop it from happening again.
And guess what?!? It didn't work, I was cheated on even with all the precautions and all the work I put into protecting my heart. So I'm here to tell you it doesn't work ladies it doesn't stop anything, all the things you do won't stop someone from being unfaithful.
Do you know why? Because it has nothing to do with you! You are not the problem. You can be the best you can be, you can give someone the world and they'll still look for someone that can give them the universe. The only thing you can do is hope for the best, hope that the person you fall for can find it within themselves to not always be on the lookout for something better, to learn to be content, but the best thing you can do is to love yourself more than anyone else can. To learn that you deserve amazing and wonderful things. So if this does happen and your significant other does go astray, you'll have yourself to fall back on. Don't lose yourself running after someone else and don't look for your worth inside someone else's eyes.
Know yourself, love yourself, and most importantly take care of yourself. You can be your biggest uprise and supporter or your own worst critic and your downfall. It all is up to you.
❤Casita
