In a relationship, a lot of us tend to lose ourselves. Not on purpose or anything just because we forget. We are so intent on loving that other person we forget about our own needs. We forget to love the most important person, ourselves. And that’s exactly why when some relationships don’t work out we are left feeling worthless and unlovable. But those are the exact times when self love is necessary, imagine if we had it all along.
I’ve found that I’m in the situation I am now because I’ve needed self love for so long and God has put me in a situation where it was either learn to love myself or continue being miserable and of course I’m tired of being sad all the time. Who wants to sit around feeling sad, especially a free spirit like me. But I was so used to self loathing it took me so long to realize I deserve to be loved by myself more than anyone.
It’s crazy how such a fucked up situation can change your whole outlook on life and love. I’ve finally come to the conclusion, there are people out there that need my kind of love and I need to stop isolating myself and let ‘em have it lol. There’s someone out there just like me who needs a friend that can love them while they learn to love themselves, so here I am world. Cheesy as this all sounds, I came up with this at 3 in the morning and finally I feel like it all makes sense!
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