Now this may be a little off topic from my normal positive lifestyle posts but relationships with other people are going to be something that comes up in this journey. This might seem more like a vent sesh but I felt it important to get my ideas and opinions out there. So here it goes!
When it comes to significant others, some things boggle my mind. If you cheat, flirt, or what have you, think about how you are affecting the other person. Put yourself in their shoes, would you like it if they did that to you? Would that bother you? If it would then why are you doing it?!? If it wouldn't then why are you with that person? You obviously don't have enough respect for that person or the relationship to actually care about their feelings. Cheating and flirting with other people shouldn't be something you just accept, that's not what a healthy and respectful relationship looks like.
And the argument I always hear is that your significant other should have enough confidence within themselves that, flirting shouldn't bother them. But ask yourself really, what is the point in your flirting? Is that bettering your life? Is that bettering your relationship? If it's not then why are you doing it? What is the point?
And I understand some of you really won't agree with this and that's fine, but everyone is entitled to their opinion and just like you have yours, I have mine. That's something we all have to learn, even me. Not everyone is going to agree with you, doesn't mean their opinion is lesser than your own. If you want respect, give it.
Casita
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