So the other day someone told me their opinion of me and I couldn't believe it. They really thought my intentions for doing something were manipulative. I honestly and wholeheartedly could not believe that is what they thought of me. And I sat there trying to convince them that my intentions were not bad in any way but then I sat back and thought, why? This sounds like I'm trying to convince not only them but trying to convince myself as well. But I know that what I was doing wasn't what they thought but no amount of convincing is going to change their perception of me.
Perception is not always reality but that doesn't mean that you can change the way people think about you. And you shouldn't have to. If someone perceives you in a certain light then that's their opinion, which everyone is entitled to. Do not waste your time trying to change people's opinions of you. Be true to yourself and if you know who you are and know your real intentions then that's what matters. You are just going to frustrate yourself trying to make people see you the way you see you or the way you want them to see you.
Don't ever let someone make you question yourself, you are giving them power over you that no one should have. People's opinion of you should not define you. And this is where really loving yourself and knowing yourself comes into play. If you are secure in yourself, people won't be able to make you second guess yourself. You are lovely, don't let people make you think otherwise.
I also believe that once you start seeing the best in people, they will begin to see the best in you. So stop pointing out the worst, stop pointing out the flaws in others, and start seeing the amazing things about them. You get what you give, start giving love, respect, trust, and friendship and you'll be amazed at what you get in return. Go forth and continue to be happy and awesome!
Casita
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